Disposing of Raisinets and Picking Up Feminists
Brian writes: Tom, I liked your idea about telling a girl up front that you dont want kids,etc... and asking the abortion question prior to sex (with a condom of course). I'm curious as to how many girls you've been with that gave you a verbal commitment on this issue.
Have you turned down sex with a girl who waffled on the answer or said she would never get an abortion? Im just curious as to how many girls told you they were completely confident in getting an abortion in a worst case scenario. I like the idea but I guess Im having a hard time with the idea of turning down a girl over the issue
I have turned down dozens of women who said that they wouldn't have had an abortion if they got pregnant or even that they were "not sure" what they would do.
I'll tell you how serious I am about this issue, Brian. One time, I met a chick at a live broadcast who just wanted to go for it. It was too good to be true. She was black and beautiful, super young yet legal, and we arrived at her nicely appointed two-bedroom apartment near where the broadcast took place. We weren't in the apartment five minutes and her clothes were off. She had firm breasts and the kind of nipples that stood out like a pair of Raisinets. She dragged me to her bedroom and I proceeded to disrobe and jump into her bed. At just about the moment she had straddled me and I had my face buried in between those firm 32Ds, I could hear the sound of a baby crying in another room. Before I could ask her what was going on, she told me that it was her son crying and she added that "his father doesn't live up to his responsibility!"
That was all Your Professor needed to hear. I had to slide myself out of her (there's no better way to put it) and slide my legs out from under her so I could put my clothes on and hightail it out of there. This girl thought I was crazy and she kept asking why I had to go. I told her, "It's hard enough being responsible for myself. I don't want to take on any new responsibilities right now." That included having a relationship in which her ex-fuck buddy's responsibility became my responsibility or creating any new responsibilities since we already knew what she would do if she got knocked up again: she would keep the little crumb-cruncher and then demand to know if I was going to "live up to (my) responsibilities."
The best way to never have to live up to any responsibilities is to not create any new ones in the first place. That is why you have to say no to single mothers, no matter how hot they look. Remember: the guy who knocked her up and who now pays her child support once thought she was hot too.
Peter writes: Hey Dad! I was wondering, when a woman starts talking about "feminism" at any time during a interaction with you, how fast should you run away? Should you start at an angle so if they start chasing you they trip in their stilettos and break an ankle?
I just was chatting up a chick online and I told her she did something "bitchy", and she went off on an pseudo-intellectual rant about how I was bipolar and anti-feminist.
Luckily I am an avid Leykis listener and I actually did what you said and went to graduate school, so I actually know what "being bipolar" actually means. Obviously when I corrected her, she avoided it and pushed the point I was a chauvinist pig.
I laughed my ass off and proceeded to click the "next" button on the web browser.
I never run away from chicks who say they are feminists. On the contrary, I let them know that I am a feminist as well, starting with them paying for dinner. I let them know that I am glad that they believe in equality because it takes away all the pressure to pay for things and initiate contact. I tell them that I am all about equality and that I am relieved to know they're feminist because I am not the kind of person who feels the need to cater to other people. If they get pissed at my choice of words, I let them know that we all know bitches and that I don't believe that all women are bitches...just the ones who are.
Many women like this love to throw around terms like "chauvinist pig" and "anti-feminist", but if they really felt that way about you, they wouldn't still be talking to you. Have some balls and stand up for what you believe in. They will fuck you if you stand up for yourself.
Then, after you've fucked them, crumple them up and dispose of them like a used Kleenex knowing that you can never hurt them because, after all, they are strong, proud women.
PS: I would never move in with or marry a feminist because I would never be with someone who wouldn't iron my shirt or make me lunch.
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Pregnancy and Feminism
This post brought up a couple little memories for me. One was the time a girl tried to trick me into getting her pregnant. I refused to have sex without a condom and she finally gave in, then later when I went to the bathroom, something possessed me to sneak back out to see what she was doing. I watched her dig through my garbage for a moment until she pulled out the condom we'd just used. Only then did I remember the conversation we'd had a week or two earlier where she told me how awesome it would be to be pregnant because she figured she could get her parents to buy her a car.
A number of years later I was dating a very outspoken feminist. She was actually a pretty reasonable girl... most of the time. Then one day, out of the blue, she got all angry at me because I had never raped her. No joke. You can't make this shit up. She actually said "rape" too. It wasn't just euphemisms. She then revealed that she would occasionally refuse to have sex with me in hopes that I would force it on her, and I had always disappointed her. I mean, she was really angry with me for not magically knowing that she wanted this. I finally talked her down and she started to realize how crazy and unreasonable it was, but somehow she never accepted that she had thoroughly undermined the feminism that she claimed was so important to her.
Ironically this girl hated Tom Leykis with a passion. However, she was always asking me to behave differently, and her suggestions on how I should act seemed to match quite close to how Tom Leykis says men should behave.
So if you wonder if you should date a feminist... I don't know. Many feminists, deep down, are not really feminists, and are just in denial about how they really feel.
I'm a chick too....
I feel fortunate that I have been vigilant enough about birth control and avoided unwanted pregnancy thus far, I will continue to make it a priority. People are so careless and it results in life changing tragedies that could have been easily avoided. I commend Leykis for teaching his followers to always wear condoms. So many men I have been with have tried to fuck me without a condom and I have always been the one who has to continually insist on using one and using the pill as well. I do feel sorry for the poor souls (both male and female) who have fallen victim to unwanted pregnancy but they have no one to blame but themselves. There are so many options these days... condoms, the pill, and plan B. Remember if a condom breaks run to your local pharmacy and pick up plan B (costs $40 bucks but its worth it)! The list goes on and on. Go to planned parenthood for god sakes! The American public is literally so retarded they cannot use rubbers!
I realize that a lot of the content of Leykis 101 is offensive, but both men and women can learn a lot from it. I totally agree with him that NO ONE should have kids or get married until 25. I'm 24 and still not ready to settle down, and definitely not ready for kids. I am curious to know more advice about what to do while in relationships. Since Leykis has been divorced several times maybe that isn't his specialty lol. Either way he has a lot of good points and at least he speaks the truth.
Go to Male Contraceptive.org
Go to Male Contraceptives.org and join the cause in bring more male contraceptives that already exist in Asia, espcially India & China to the US. Unfortunately Big Pharma doens't want more Male Contraceptives to enter the markets because it will cut into their profit margins.
Espeically this one Method called the RISUG injection, which will totally be a game changer, that is the one Male Contraceptive Big Pharma hates.
Unfortunately women don't use birth control because there is too much percieved incentives for them not to be on it, free cash, and enternal sympathy & vicitm status does a lots of chicks fine.
Leykis 101 is not offensive, it's just very honest and truthful, and American females particularly don't like how their secret is being given away.
Relationship Advice: Please you man! Please your man! Don't be stuck-up & uptight & stop being a Feminist & Please your man! Don't get Fat, don't chop you hair off! Cook ( and please don't give me any excuses about not having time because today there are Microwaves, Ovens, Magic Bullet, Bullet Express, hell even Nu-Wave Portable ovens)! And don't have sexual hang-ups! If you just give-in a little you'll be amazed as to how much you get in return from guys because they will be bold over & enthusiastic in pleasing you by you doing just these 5 things!
Be the Queen, stay in the Queen's lane & let him be the King & stay in the King's lane! There is nothing wrong with letting him be the head because in the end you're the neck anyways.
Say What!
Dear, Dear misguided Professor and following helpless bastards. You have a very limited education about feminists; obviously never having gotten to know many women because you use them for sex, and when in a relationship, pick the youngest, hottest, brainless women on earth, following 101 strictly as you do. It limits your ability to have a grasp of reality .Feminisum is about the law and discrimination. Women want the right to choose to stay home and care for a man, or to have a career, or both. When the Husband dumps the home maker for a younger hotter model after she has given him many years of service then he needs to support her until she has caught up on education and career. He needs to pay for his off spring or have full custody of them. If a woman chooses to have both career and a family then the law does not allow for spousal support as long as the woman has worked and earned a living through the major part of the marriage. Making the working career woman the best choice for a man who wants to not pay support later when he trades her in for a younger hotter model. The woman who chooses to work and stay unmarried because they do not want to reproduce are of course out of your league, and the league of the sheep that follow 101 blindly. They after all are the hottest because they can afford the luxury it takes to maintain ones body in perfect condition and the special meals prepared and delivered so that she keeps to her eating plan. She of course has money, power and self respect. Feminists love to care for men. As long as they are lovingly care for too. While women, being nesters like to cook, keep a spotless and stylish home, and take pride in seeing the man they love happy. Happy because he has lots of good sex, happy because she pays half the bills, happy because he has a partner in life who shares in half the responsibility making his life much easier. While she has other needs that a loving man would take care of making the relationship a give and take. Such as dealing with contractors and car repair people who see his woman as a chump and try to take advantage of her. Killing bugs with out chasing her around the house pretending to throw them at her. Cleaning the pool, planting the flowers she likes in the garden, putting up with her cat. Letting her have her time to do what is important to her while she lets him have his time to watch football or what ever it is he loves to do. I can not imagine why you want anyone but a satisfied woman. A woman who loves her career, is happy because she has her own wealth and loves you and wants the same for the man who is the most important thing in her life. That is feminism. Being able to be respected because one has earned it, loved because she loves and cares for a man too, and having protection legally for herself and her children from men who want a wife to stay home and raise his offspring while he fucks every girl Friday on the staff. Feminism is not about being more like a man but being able to earn equal to a man, in the same fields as men, while still being a woman. It is about being able to not be abused after having raised a mans children while he built a career and then wants to break the contract without paying for the prearranged services he willing took advantage of. Being a dysfunctional man you cope within the walls of 101, and good for you! I respect the emotionally handicapped playing in the special Olympics of life. You go for it boys!
They keep expressing their stupidity by claiming they are smart!
They keep exposing their stupidity & confusion & just how lost they as they try their hardest to prove that they are smart but really all they are doing is ranting & ranting & ranting & going blah blah blah blah. Look we're not stupid, we know what feminism is in action, IT'S ABOUT WOMEN HAVING ALL THE CHOICES IN THE WORLD & THE ADVANTAGES OF YESTERDAY & TODAY WITH NONE OF THE RESPONSIBILITIES ATTACHED TO IT, AND ABOUT HAVING MORE RIGHTS & PREVILEGEDES THAN MEN WITHOUT ANY RESPONSIBILITY ATTACHED TO IT, AND OF COURSE SHE IS ALWAYS THE OPRESSED VICTIM, WHILE MEN ARE HIT WITH ALL THE ACCOUNTABILITIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES. So in a nut shell, STFU Americunt Skkkankkk! There have been plenty of women who subscribe to the traditional roles of men & women in a relationship who have written tom & have expressed that they do not wish to see their sons marry in todays environment & that their husbands do respect them. Who they trade up for a younger hotter seixer & smarter chick ARE YOUR TYPES DUMMIE! Many men have made decision to expatriate to other nations in Latin America or Asia or even Southern Europe & marry & settle down there, or marry or date Foreign women and boy you better believe they are happy about it, and YOU ARE PISSED OFF BECAUSE YOUR SEXUAL MARKET VALUE HAS JUST GONE FROM "UN-DESIRABLE" TO "ELIMINATED" FROM THE MARKET.
From an "American Skank"
So you think American women are skank? Well, let me tell you, buddy that this skank who is replying to you would NEVER get involved with American men because there are only two kinds: The fundie nutjobs who want to keep women barefoot and pregnant and the angry wackjobs you see on this site. This "skank" here who is replying to you has her own career and investments since age 27. I have always kept my body in good shape with diet and exercise. Dirtbags like you always come on to me, but I'm childfree, so I want nothing to do with you losers whose only goal is to fuck and dump. So, I married a nice European man when I live in Paris. You American losers still flirt with me, but you'll get nothing because I have what I need with my European hubby. Go to South America and find a woman. After she has several brats, she'll become HUGE and her vagina will be as wide as a windsock. I'm laughing at you because you DESERVE that fat Mexican woman!
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If you're having sex with
If you're having sex with someone consistently, I think it's a great idea to ask.
If it's a one night type thing, I'd just ask if they were on birth control.. because nothing sets the mood more than bringing up cunt vacuuming before you do the deed.
I would find a way to fit it into a conversation, naturally, so they would be more likely to tell the truth.
Birth control + condoms = good enough for me.
Oh, and on top of all of that, I usually pull out and make a big mess anyways (face/tits/ass) So it would actually be Birth Control + Condoms + Pull out. Good times.
Woman Lie
Asking a woman if there on birth control is the same as asking a used car salesman if the odometer is acuarate. The 3 biggest lies a woman will tell you.
1. Im on the pill
2. Its yours
3. Im not marring you for your money
As a woman, part 2
Because I forgot to post this the first time, and just thought about it.
I know it's probably not common practice, but even I breach the subject of "what happens in the case of an accident?" with the men I sleep with. Probably not as early as I should. If it were with someone where the only connection is casual sex, I'd probably have an abortion and simply not trouble them with it. (I'm not a fan of 'what they don't know can't hurt them,' or aborting without the father's consent, but I'm also not a fan of screwing up my life over someone I never intend to see again.) If I'm in a relationship with a man, I want to know his opinion. I want to know if he's going to be okay with me terminating an accidental pregnancy, or if he'd flip shit if I did. Don't get me wrong; I want children. Just not right now. Not by myself. Not when I haven't gone to school, don't have a career, etc. Having a child could hinder that.
I think men should always ask. Casual or not. You may never see her again. If you knock her up, she may never try to get a cent out of you, she might abort and you may never know what became of one of your little swimmers. Or, she could call you a month later because she missed her period, and then for the next 18 years and 8 months, you may be listening to her bitch, and possibly making those famous 216 payments.
I am seeing someone who would not want me to have an abortion, but would allow it if he knew it were the best thing to do. I'm okay with that. He's probably the more reasonable out of the two of us, so if he thought it would be possible, together or not, to raise a kid without life being miserable for the child, I'd consent to that. If he knew it was not a good idea, and thought termination was the best way, I'd consent to that.
More often than not, women are not going to ask you. They're going to have one of two ideas in their head for if they get pregnant, assuming they've thought about it at all, and you may or may not have any say in it. Bring it up. Do not screw yourself over by neglecting to ask one awkward little question.
you never know for sure
I like the concept of knowing if she'd have an abortion before fucking her. But I don't really think that you can know for sure, I'm sure many women would have a change of heart or just be lying.
To stay on the safe side, I always wear a rubber that I provide for myself, and before throwing it away make sure you put something in it like, hot sauce, or hand soap.....
thats what i tell the young guys at work, and i'm a girl
oh ya, i preach this alot , i tell them what to do before they toss out the used condom, i tell them the same thing, use hot sauce or hand soap.
i'm 44 years old and not popped out any kids, "thank God" for that, how in the hell do women support a kid on welfare and taking a mans check away, oh wait never mind, i know, lol.
my tax dollars go into welfare and other services that i as a woman will never see, why ?, well i have to get prego , be blind, be disabled, be below poor, and be old, nooooo wait, the economy sucks now, so i guess i can cross out old.
oooooops am i going bla bla bla, , ha ha , i love my man, and i think men are great, that why i'm glad your here Tom, to protect men, thank you Tom and my man is a fan of you.
Turning down Pussy
I think it's good to turn it down every once in a while mainly in relationships if you are in one, and don't let it be used as a reward (bribe) for doing something for them. Because then, they have the power over you knowing they can get you to do something if they give it up. And since women create their own conflicts in their minds all you have to do is plant the correct idea in their mind (like inception) and they will run away with it. Once you turn it down they will immediately wonder why of course and start creating negative scenarios in their mind "Is their a pussy better than mine?" And being the women hating competitors they are, she will out-do herself to compete with this imaginary pussy, throw herself at you and you will probably have best the fuck of your life (with her) she'll probably do some new shit too.
As a woman..
I try not to use sex in any way. Just because I don't get what I want doesn't mean I'm going to hold out on the guy I'm seeing. I probably have a higher sex drive than he does, anyway. Which is why I agree, that turning down sex, for whatever reason, is all the more likely to make her want you more.
If the guy I am seeing were to tell me no, or that he was too tired, or even give a decent reason, I would probably be that much more determined to get into his pants. There doesn't even have to be the idea of another woman involved, though that might help with some women (For others, they might just leave; there are plenty of women who dislike competition). I want him, and I want sex, and that's all there is to it.
Besides, there's nothing wrong with occasionally making a woman beg for it. ;)
HAHAHA Been implementing that
Very good suggestion about turning it down. Women hate to be rejected. While I am guilty as charged for being in a relationship, rest assured I pay very little of the expenses. Just as you suggested, I have turned down sex once in a while and for the most part this drives them nuts. Don't make it too obvious (pretend your really tired, or you had a long day at work) and it could be a rather good strategy when used properly. When girls constantly keep making public displays of affection when there are much more attractive women nearby in a public situation, that's when you know its working. As you said, its that fear of "is there a pussy better than mine?" that freaks them out. Keep up the good word dad. Glad to know you're enjoying that new toy (the HTC EVO). Now, if there could just be a Leykis 101 android app.......
This site is bullshit
This site is the biggest bunch of crap ever. Women are not inferior to men in anyway shape or form and they make their own money. This site is for the most pathetic of the pathetic.
If you want to get laid fine, but there is no reason why you can't do it in an honest respectful way.
I can only imagine that the biggest of losers actually subscribe to this.
Leykis 101 app
Saw one, The app makes the phone ring or sends you a urgent text message at a certain time just set it if you not getting anywere the phone rings and you have to go.